For many, the idea of moving to Spain brings up sun-drenched terraces, a slower life, and more space to breathe. And yes, that’s part of the story. But it’s not the whole story.

So in this blog, we’re sharing 10 things no one tells you about moving to Spain. The stuff that doesn’t show up in glossy Instagram posts, but that can make or break your experience.

1. Bureaucracy is a full-time job

Paperwork in Spain is a world of its own. Booking an appointment, requesting your NIE number, registering at the town hall — nothing is as straightforward as you might expect.
You’ll need documents in triplicate, signed, stamped, and translated. And yes — one official might say something completely different from the next.

Tip: Get help from someone who understands the system and speaks the language. It saves time, money, and endless frustration.

2. The pace of life is different and it takes time to adjust

If you’re used to Dutch efficiency, you might be in for a surprise. Shops close midday. Meetings start late. Deadlines are flexible.

At first, it can feel like the world is standing still. But eventually, many expats come to appreciate this slower rhythm. There’s more time to live, to breathe, to enjoy the small things.

3. The language barrier runs deeper than expected

In a city like Valencia, you might assume English will get you far. But outside the expat bubble — and especially when dealing with official matters — Spanish is a must. And not just casual Spanish, but legal, medical, administrative Spanish.

Whether it’s a visit to the doctor, a housing contract, or an appointment with the tax office — things go smoother when you’re fluent (or have someone by your side who is).

4. Making friends takes time

At first, everything feels new and exciting. But after a few weeks, the reality hits: your old support network is far away, and building a new one doesn’t happen overnight.

Especially if you don’t speak the language (yet), or live outside the more international areas, it can feel isolating at times.

Our advice? Be patient, stay open, and actively seek out communities and connections. They’re there — but it’s up to you to find them.

5. Not everything is cheaper

It’s a myth that life in Spain is always cheaper. Sure, rent and groceries may be more affordable, but you’ll also face new and unexpected costs.

Think:
– Private health insurance
– Legal and fiscal guidance
– Import fees (for furniture or cars)
– Translators and interpreters

Especially in your first year, be prepared for significant one-off expenses as you set everything up.

6. You might feel caught between two systems

Moving abroad means you’re no longer part of your home country’s system — but not yet fully integrated into the new one.

This can lead to annoying gaps:
– Trouble accessing your Dutch DigiD
– Unclear tax obligations
– Difficulties with banking or healthcare

Being well-prepared helps. So does having a local expert on your side.

7. Running a business in Spain is different

If you’re self-employed, you may be thinking: I’ll just take my work with me. But running a business from Spain means adapting to new rules, new norms, and a very different pace.

The Spanish market has its own rhythm. And clients back home might assume you’re “just on vacation” — which means you’ll need to double down on clear communication and building a local presence.

8. You’ll change, more than you expect

Moving abroad is a personal transformation. It stretches you. You’ll be challenged, surprised, and occasionally overwhelmed. You’ll let go of habits, beliefs, and routines — and discover new parts of yourself in the process.

Yes, it’s intense. But it’s also one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever do.

9. Your social circle will shift

Some friendships will fade. Others will deepen.
You’ll miss birthdays, Sunday dinners, and spontaneous chats with friends back home. But you’ll also meet people on this journey who just get you.

People who are walking a similar path. And with whom you’ll form bonds that are surprisingly strong — and refreshingly honest.

10. Spain will never be “just like home” and that’s the whole point

There will be days when things go wrong. When the plumber doesn’t show. When the paperwork is endless. When you crave Dutch bread or a system that just works.

But then there are days when you sit on a sun-drenched terrace, breathe in the scent of oranges, hear church bells in the distance, and realise: This is the life I was meant to live.

It’s not perfect. It’s better.

Moving to Spain isn’t an escape, it’s a conscious choice

It’s a decision to live differently. To embrace change. To build a life that fits you, not one you simply fell into.
But you don’t have to do it alone.

At Match Better Valencia, we’re here to guide you every step of the way, from the first question to the final signature. With practical help, local know-how, and a personal touch.

Curious what we can do for you? Get in touch for a free introduction call. We’re happy to help — even if you’re still in the dreaming phase.